Fear of Failures!

 Well who likes Failures??  No one. absolutely no one. But still "FAIL-LURES" are quite common and if not now then in future everyone gonna face it one day. After all its Life and Success and Failure are Part and parcel of it. But one thing I have understood as per my experiences in life that without Failures you can't progress in Life.

Very often there are many books , articles, videos, blogs , etc on How to achieve Success , How to handle Success , How to be Patient during the days of success , etc but there is no such thing as How to face A Failure??. And it is often said success hits you in Private and failure slaps you in Public. Most of the things we are not able to Handle or face the Failure. Now why so?? One of the reason may be that because we are Fearful. Fear of what?? It can be a Fear of Defeat, Fear of "What will People say", Fear of our Image getting Spoiled, Fear that what if no one could understand me and what not.....

Basically Failure is Mirror. It shows us where exactly in Life we are going Wrong. In other Words Failure is a God's way of Communicating with us. So next time you Face a Failure, don't get Stressed out. Its just as Normal as everything else is.

So let me tell you one thing that these Fears are Irrational and Abnormal. These are created by us and by thinking about those we are providing Nourishment to our Fears. Most of the times we take Failures too too Seriously. Yes I understand its serious but not that Serious that you Replicate it as Game of Life and Death. So we need to stop taking Failures on our nerves. So how to Stop this?? First of all accept that you are experiencing a Fear. Now if you really want to get rid of it, Identify the cause of your Failure. Find the Reason of your Failure. I know its bit tough but still work on it, think about it. Once you find the Cause Identify if your cause of Fear is Rational(Logical) or Irrational(Abnormal). If you find Your Cause is Rational then then need not to worry. You are just Overthinking the whole Scenario and this is Leading to cause you Extreme Fear. But what if Your Cause is Irrational or Abnormal or Baseless. Well, then you need to keep a track of our Thoughts and understand one thing that don't Run Behind Materialistic Things. These are just temporary, Instead stick to some Purpose. It will not only Enhance your Quality of Thinking but will also give you Inner Peace and Strength. Abnormal Cause means according to me, that either you are Underestimating yourself or you are not Sure about Yourself or You have Lost Faith on yourself.

So, First of all Don't do this mistake of losing Faith on Yourself. Have Faith. Understand that your Cause is baseless and so you need to Eliminate it by having Faith on Yourself! Once you Understand this gradually your Fear of Failure  will too be Vanished. And its so important to Kill the Fear because "Fear doesn't let us to live our Life Freely". And if we will not Live Life Freely How will we enjoy it??

So Delete Your Fear and Reload the Happiness!💝